Argument with husband, am I being unfair?

Have you bothered to make any inquiries about the public school in question? Or are you simply making umptions based on what you "hear"? Unless you've done your research and have ACTUAL reasons for not wanting your daughter to attend that school, I doubt you're going to win your husband over because without the facts, you DO sound like you're simply being a snob. Do your homework, girl! And don't ume a private school is automatically better. There've been some truly unsavory happenings in private schools as well. The point here is to get out there and learn about the schools available to you so you can make an informed decision.